I'm exteremely lazy. I'm sophmore apprentice at a bounded university accomplishing engineering. I accept nice job which I haven't gone to for added than a ages (but I anticipate I still accept the job), i'm flunking all my classes this semester, and now I've got a new adventitious to plan for a artist and be allotment of his aggregation but i'm too apathetic to do anything.
Last year I didn't accept abundant debt, academy wasn't great, but was ok. I was alive added than now (i assumption i've been apathetic all my activity but it's been accepting too abundant lately). Back endure year I don't apperceive why, I've been traveling added and added in debt (now about 40k) , absence plan and school. I don't apperceive how to achieve myself move.
I apperceive I accept aggregate that it takes to be a acknowledged getting in life, but I'm too apathetic to use my opportunities.
PLEASE acquaint me how can I get my activity together. How can I affected my laziness.
how can I acquisition activity for life. How can I advance myself.

Answers :Throw the bell abroad and get off the computer.

Answers :well to me it seems like you're missing something, you charge that atom aback in your life, go to a club, dance, get a girlfriend, or if that deosnt work, again maybe you're apathetic with engineering, acquisition a job that you adore doing, i deceit say that to a lot of humans because a lot of humans arent as accomplished as you, so they are ashore at deadend jobs that they hate,,my endure resolution would be to acquisition a hobby, my amusement is architecture archetypal cars, and accession them, i achievement one of these helps..later man

Answers :I'm array of in a agnate situation. For me, I just afresh flunked my aboriginal year in university. Now I accept to echo a accomplished year. I anticipate the capital reson I flunked it was because i was apathetic and did not affliction about anything. So, months accept anesthetized by and I've been already planning tons. Here's what I did. First, I startd planning out what my anemic capacity are and what affectionate of added courses/tutors I may charge during the summe breach so I can be able for next year. Second, I absitively to yield an added advance that will advice me in my additional year. And finally, I'm chief to get my driver's authorization and to get a job. Now, ofcourse you can't just plan all this and say you'll do it. You in fact accept to actuate yourself and accept some affectionate of activity in you that will achieve you acceleration up and achieve what you can to become successful. For me, I learnedmy lession the harder way by absolutely messing up aboriginal year and crumbling a lot of money and at the aforementioned time disspointing my parents and espcially myself. Don't do what I did because you still accept time. Achieve a plan for yourself what you wish to get achieve and administer your time appropriately and in fact DO what you plan because YOU adjudge your future. Achievement this helped, Goodluck!

Answers :man
you accept the acknowledgment yourself....it's absolutely not about the 40k or traveling to some classes or alive or sitting or just watching tv

it's about you, personally
do you absolutely wish to abduct from your own abridged ? that ability assume funny.....let me acquisition something else....

do you absolutely wish to apish yourself and abandon yourself so that , afterwards some added years in your life, you would feel all this acrimony and resentments and getting you didn't do / take, etc etc ?

it's like cheating on yourself....but i see no purpose, if there was one, that it was ok i guess.....

it's like you wish to be apathetic so you can ache afterwards on these claimed accomplishments ....hmmm....sounds accustomed ?? :))

i apperceive there's got to be somebody to acquaint you these and aswell to acquaint you every day getting till you get up,

until i appear to your abode with a stick to admonish you everyday, amuse bethink accustomed that it's about you, you active your admirable activity which you don't wish to waste....

it's something like if you don't decay it it's beautiful
if you decay it it's gonna be actual sad in years to come, year by year :))

you absolutely don't accept a choice, and that's wonderful, because anyone already anticipation the acceptable (best) plan for you, you alone accept to chase it.....stop getting apathetic and do aggregate that activity wants you to do....you will feel if activity wants you to do this or that
i say this because you anticipate apparently "life" wants me to do this, you forgot about you in fact active this activity and activity acceptable :) i know, i know....

and aswell if you will not yield these admired things you'll feel it abysmal down (so that you can do it next time, but beware....if you reside for "next time" you will absence the present moment area the activity is and it will be aforementioned as...what you are accomplishing now....

being acutely apathetic is so admirable said....i laid down for you approaching contest / situations that could appear out of that :)
i don't wish to alarm you but back you, for some reason, don't apperceive what apathy can advance to, there it is

other than that activity is beautiful, alone you accept to yield on it, to go with it or aforementioned as surfers do, be with the wave, be the beachcomber :))

push yourself ????
awake yourself and apprehend it's about you....you don't charge to "push yourself"....it's YOUR life..live it...pushing yourself will alone achieve you run about your tail

cheers and g-luck,
sorry if i acclimated some boxy words but i apperceive area you're at and you absolutely charge these to bang start

Thanks Untamed Rose, for the inspiration.