My best acquaintance just bankrupt up with her admirer of one year about a ages ago, and she has been a mess. Endure anniversary she told me she cuts herself and is depressed, but doesn't wish help. About a year ago, she told me she had abdicate drugs, but today she told me she smokes a cigareet and a collective absolutely often, has approved X and coke. Also endure anniversary over texting she told me "I don't wish to be alive, the apple isn't for me..." and today she told me "I assumption it's acceptable my mom doesn't accept a gun in the house." I am so afraid for her and afraid she will OD, get bent or die even. I apperceive I charge to acquaint someone, she has alone confided this in me, admitting so I feel if I do she will be mad at me and not assurance me. I don't even apperceive if this is all true. my questions are 1) should I acquaint anyone and who and 2) how can I advice her myself. We are both in top school. I charge advice so I can advice her.

Answers :I anticipate that you can acquaint anyone at academy that can advice her, not a assistant or something but a advice advisor or a badge administrator or anyone that will attending into it and advice her

Answers :Yes Yes! Your acquaintance may be mad at you, but its bigger to accept a mad acquaintance than a asleep friend. Allocution to anyone you trust, a councler, parents, ancestors member, or somthing like that. Also, acquaint her you are cogent anyone to get her help. She'll prolly be actual mad at you, but afterwards she gets help, she'll apprehend that your a actual caring friend. This bearings is wayy to big for a highschooler. If you anytime wish to allocution about it, just im me, n i'm austere about it!

Answers :What are you wainting for ??? Go acquaint someone. You apperceive this.

Answers :trust me assurance me assurance me you NEED to acquaint someone. acquaint a advisor at your school. if you are afraid just acquaint the advisor not to acquaint your acquaintance it was you. if she finds out thats ok. you could be extenuative her life.

there was a babe at my academy who was adage the aforementioned kinds of things and had cuts all over her arms. one of her accompany told a advisor and the babe was absolutely mad. she cried and yelled at the babe for "ruining her life" but afterwards a few weeks the babe was bigger and anybody could acquaint she was happier and she assuredly accomplished how abundant anybody cared about her. she even thanked her acquaintance and apologized for getting mad.

your acquaintance needs the aforementioned affectionate of help. you should acquaint anyone afore it absolutely is too late. you aren't a therapist. the alone affair you can do is acquaint anyone and be there for her no amount what.

Answers :Yes, you charge to acquaint someone..She may be mad at you but just think.. You may be extenuative her life... Lots of ppl wish to die and afterwards a few years and lots of help.. They are like "What in the apple was i thinking?!?" So i anticipate afterwards you get your acquaintance some advice and aggregate she'll be Ok. But, acquaint anyone you assurance and apperceive that they will be accommodating to help..


Hope aggregate works out =]

Answers :Personally, I would abundant rather accept a acquaintance animate and never accept her allege to me again, again apperceive I could accept prevented by cogent an adult.

Find an developed you trust, a parent, relative, advice counselor, abecedary and get advice for your friend, and for you - this is a alarming abstruse to keep.

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